试错的力量:为什么‘做错事’是成功的起点?
我们都害怕犯错,觉得错误是一种失败的象征。但真相是:错误往往是通往成功的桥梁!“做错事”不仅不可怕,反而是你突破现状、快速进步的关键。
错误带来的教训比任何理论都更加直观。与其等待最优解,不如行动起来。
Do lt Wrong
放下完美,赌一把自己吧
Fuck – take a on .
别再追求完美了–试着相信自己一回。
You're at the blank page, the empty , the code. Your , . The voice in your head ,“You're not good . You'll mess it up. Why even,try?”
你盯着空白的页面、空荡的画布、未写的代码。你的手指僵住,微微发抖。脑海中的声音低语:“你不够好。你会搞砸的。干脆别试了。”
We’ve all been there. That when feels like the only . When the fear of doing it wrong keeps us from doing at all. You're not alone.
我们都有过那样的时刻。那种让人无法行动的瞬间,完美似乎成了唯一可以接受的结果。做错的恐惧让我们什么也不敢做。你并不孤单。
We've been up in a world where we see as a , as an , Most of us don't even have . When I talk to , I hear them say:” When l was , l used to do that, but now l just don't have the time for it. l was never good at it .”
我们生活在一个将一切视为竞争和机会的世界里。大多数人甚至已经没有什么爱好了。当我和别人交谈时,常听到他们说:“我年轻的时候常做那个,但现在没时间了,反正我也做不好。”
makes a man but how many times have you given up on just when got ? I have. I when I was in high . I it for quite some time but then I saw who was ten times than me. It made me my .I “I'll never be as good as them, so what's the point?
“熟能生巧”,但是你有多少次在事情变得棘手时放弃了?我肯定有过。我在高中时开始学画画,努力了很长时间,但后来我看到了一个比我强十倍的人。这让我开始怀疑自己的能力。我想:“我永远也达不到他们的水平,那还有什么意义呢?
But what if l told you that “wrong” is where the magic ?
但如果我告诉你,“做错”才是魔力所在呢?
this: It's 3 AM. You're over your desk, by and empty cups. Your eyes are ,your hair a mess. You've been on this for weeks, and it's still not right. Not .
想象一下:凌晨三点。你蜷缩在书桌前,周围是揉成一团的纸张和空空的咖啡杯。你的眼睛充血,头发乱作一团。你已经为这个项目工作了几周,还是不对。还不完美。
Now, I'm not you aim for , But I feel it is in our human to take an dive into the . As once wrote,
现在,我不是说你应该满足于平庸。但我觉得,这是我们人类的天性–勇敢地跳入未知,不做任何道歉。正如陀思妥耶夫斯基曾经写道:
To go wrong in one's own way is than to go right in else's.
走错自己的路,总比走对别人的路要好。
Let's face it-'s got a for us all. Go to , get a job, climb the , with a gold watch. safe.right? But- what's the point of if it doesn't you?
我们不得不承认–社会给了我们一个固定的蓝图:上学、找工作、爬上职场阶梯、拿着金表退休。听起来很安全,对吧?但是–如果工作没有带来兴奋感,那工作有什么意义呢?
It's the life of plain for every meal. Sure, it'll keep you alive, but at what cost to your soul?
这就像是每天吃白粥–它会让你活下去,但对你的灵魂又有什么好处呢?
Think about your book. Is it ? Or is it , human? Those dog-eared pages, those you've -they're not . They' re real. They're raw. They speak to your soul they're .
想想你最喜欢的书。它是完美无瑕的吗?还是恰恰因为它人性化、动人心弦?那些翻烂的书页,那些你划过的引号–它们并不完美。它们是真实的、原始的。它们之所以触动你的灵魂,正是因为它们不完美
When I this blog or my – it was ugly. I didn't know how to write, I could a draft the copy and from . I even gave it all up I , Most of the time I didn't even do it of what might say, I gave up I 't face the of my own . Doing is sure an ego boost.
当我开始写这个博客或新闻通讯时–它很丑。我不知道怎么写,几乎每次写完草稿就把它删除,重新开始。我甚至放弃过,因为我害怕失败。大多数时候,我不是因为别人会怎么说而放弃,而是因为我无法面对自己能力的拒绝。做事做到完美确实能提升自尊。
See, l did it on my own, any help.
你看,我是自己做的,没有任何帮助。
Feels great to say that right? But how long are you gonna run for that are to grasp than chase the you've long ago?
说这句话感觉很棒吧?但是,你到底还能追求那些比追求你早已埋藏的梦想更容易得到的东西多久呢?
Think about it – every great , , or as a . if van Gogh had given up after his first funny- ? Or if Tesla had quit after his first ? We'd be in a much , less world.
想想看–每一个伟大的发明家、艺术家或企业家,最初都是新手。想象一下,如果文森特·梵高在他的第一朵看起来奇怪的向日葵画作后就放弃了,或者尼古拉·特斯拉在他的第一次失败的实验后就放弃了呢?我们今天的世界将变得更加沉闷、缺乏电力。
The “Yes…and”
“是的…并且”理论
I it up by a long time ago. In , there's a rule: “ Yes, and…”It means you your at you and build on it. I it to every idea I got:
很久以前,我通过观看即兴表演学到了这个概念。在即兴表演中有一个规则:“是的,并且……”它的意思是你接受任何你搭档抛给你的荒诞情节,并在此基础上进行拓展。我开始将这个概念应用于我所有的想法:
Yes, l have no idea how to code, and I'm going to build an app.
是的,我根本不会编程,但我打算做一个应用程序。
Yes, I've never run more than a mile, and i'm going to sign up for a .
是的,我从来没有跑过超过一英里的路程,但我打算报名参加马拉松。
It's not about being , it's about being . Of , I know my ideas will not work out. And yes, I know I might not a in a day by a . But at least I know I gave it a shot. It's about that inner to take a hike.
这不是关于自欺欺人,而是关于敢于尝试。当然,我知道我的想法并不总会成功。而且,我也知道,通过创业,我不可能一天就成为百万富翁。但至少,我知道自己曾尝试过。关键在于告诉内心的批评者滚开。
In his book : How Non- Move the World, Adam Grant “The are the ones who fail the most, they're the ones who try the most.” So go ahead, try. fail and try again.
在他的书《原创:非传统者如何改变世界》中,亚当·格兰特写道:“最伟大的原创者是那些失败最多的人,因为他们是那些尝试最多的人。”所以,去试试吧。尝试、失败、再尝试。
So, go ahead. Do it wrong. Do it messy. Do it lazy. Do it weird. Do it . Do it .
所以,去做吧。把它做得彻底错误。做得乱七八糟。做得懒散。做得异。做得混乱。做得困惑。
So the next time you're faced with a , a new , or just a wild idea that won't let you go, don't ask if you're good . Don't ask if you're ready. Ask :”What's the worst that could if I do this wrong?”And then,leap.
所以下次当你面临挑战、新机会,或者一个不放过你的疯狂想法时,不要问自己是否足够好。不要问自己是否准备好了。问问自己:“如果我做错了,最坏的结果是什么?”然后,干吧。
at the end of the day, it's not about it right. lt's about it .
因为归根结底,重要的不是做对了,而是开始了。
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